The entire mystery of pleasure in a woman’s body lies in the intensity of the pulsation just before the orgasm. Sometimes it is slow, one-two-three, three palpitations which then project a fiery and icy liqueur through the body. If the palpitation is feeble, muted, the pleasure is like a gentler wave. The pocket seed of ecstasy bursts with more or less energy, when it is richest it touches every portion of the body, vibrating through every nerve and cell. If the palpitation is intense, the rhythm and beat of it is slower and the pleasure more lasting. Electric flesh-arrows, a second wave of pleasure falls over the first, a third which touches every nerve end, and now the third like an electric current traversing the body. A rainbow of color strikes the eyelids. A foam of music falls over the ears. It is the gong of the orgasm. There are times when a woman feels her body but lightly played on. Others when it reaches such a climax it seems it can never surpass. So many climaxes. Some caused by tenderness, some by desire, some by a word or an image seen during the day. There are times when the day itself demads a climax, days of which do not end in a climax, when the body is asleep or dreaming other dreams. There are days when the climax is not pleasure but pain, jealousy, terror, anxiety. And there are days when the climax takes place in creation, a white climax. Revolution is another climax. Sainthood another.
Sex repression, tabooing sex, is the very foundation of human slavery. Man cannot be free unless sex is free. Man cannot be really free unless his sex energy is allowed natural growth.
Our New Practice of Non-O
Threesomes, we have been calling workshops, left me wary and ragged. Even though we seem to be getting to a new level of intimacy, it wasn’t sustainable. I didn’t like the withdrawals from the experience.
I thought I would find the instructions for mindful masturbation when I stumbled upon http://www.reuniting.info/resources/exchange_of_the_day.
Its take on sex is refreshing. Combining tantra and Chinese sex medicine. It’s easy to take, not a whole lot of jargon. Karezza comes from an Italian word that means to caress. This continuous lovemaking places the emphasis on connecting and bonding. Foreplay, Climaxes, Withdrawal and Recovery are gone!
It seems our cultural conditioning on sex has been making me sick. It muddies up my brain chemistry. I’m in for a sexual reboot.
But first, fresh jizz in my pants, I wiped it up with the tissue. There is a sense of shriveling, not just with my cock, like I am dehydrating in mere moments. November 16th, it will be a month to my birthday so as to add meaning and a milestone. It’s been awhile since I orgasmed but I wasn’t sure exactly when.
Here is an example of what we may distill even more of while practicing Non-O. Cuddling and non-goal oriented touch raises us to a height where we have a dramatically new *point of view.* The world we see is different. We can see things We never saw before. We can have experiences we never dreamed of before. We are all so connected that this is not an individual experience, either. We affect our friends, our coworkers, even strangers on our jobs. More important to us, we feel ourselves entering a world where *flow* takes on real significance. We have long held the conviction that we live in an abundant world. Now we have the *experience* that this is so.
Why She is So Juicy
When we express sexuality on our own terms, learning what turns us on the “whole world changes,” Northrup says. The implications of this are huge. As science decodes sexual mysteries, and women push a boundaries that needed to be moved, we see that whether we pursue them or not, our fantasies tickle more than our genitals.
Turned-on women “hold the reigns of fulfillment” in their hands, says Northrup, and not just for themselves, but for their partners. “A turned-on woman is what turns on a man (or another woman).” Eroticism, our sexual energy, is the key, she suggests, that will help us get into “the flow of a healthy and fulfilled life.”
“We are now on the brink of a revolutionary new understanding of female sexuality that has profound scientific and social implications,” Lisa Diamond has written. We could just as easily say that the new science will have profound implications for female sexuality, opening up the doors that society has tried to shut for a long, long time.
Erotic Bliss Partners
We’d like to meet sacred erotic bliss partners.
We’re a luscious couple that enjoys sex and sharing our erotic pleasure with others. We share 420 and invite Molly to join the ritual. A low key evening of music, massage, dance, cuddling turns into collaborating on hours of luscious sex. For us, sex is sacred and satisfying. This is about celebrating and sharing, not performance and show.
Where might it all lead? It all depends on chemistry and flow. The most important thing is that you are a real, thoughtful, respectful, are a high sex drive person/couple who wants to share erotic bliss through touch and affection and arousal and sex with others, has a gentle nature and mischievious tendency and a high degree of emotional intelligence.
We’d love to enjoy the company of sensual loving people tonight or tomorrow night. Ideally we would keep in touch, take trips from time to time to Harbin and elsewhere and continue with lengthy pleasuring each other and keeping the bliss coming.
If you are interested in what we are looking for, share a picture of you, not your genitals, and tell us what you seek.
Thanks for reading and we look forward to hearing from you.
The odds of not meeting in this life are so great that every meeting is like a miracle. It’s a wonder that we don’t make love to every single person.
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Sacred sexual celebration
The power of the erotic is acknowledged in many cultures. Shakti is the Sanskrit term for the female life force from which all existence originates. Sexuality, an important expression of this life force, may be expressed in a great variety of ways. We can be sexual alone or with other people or with Nature herself. Depending on the culture, we are sexual in order to share love, give and receive pleasure, communicate deeply with one another, make babies, connect with spirit, make art, change the weather or generate healing power.
We believe that all these things can be found together and that we would all be better off if we joined in celebration in that way.
